Is it really such an important thing to be in a relationship, If i die a virgin, is it a failure, or could it be that success in life should be measured by other things? If I fail to fulfill the natural impulse to reproduce, do i fail as a human being? I know I will probably die alone, and it would be a lie for me to say that Im okay with that, but this is not a disability, it doesnt prevent me from living my life, It wont hold me back. Sure, at times I get desperately lonely, it feels like I have a black, expanding vortex of pain inside me, and to see how everyone else has someone, is like a fresh wound everytime. But I will remain strong, as I feel that some people such as myself, are just destined to be alone, forever. I can still pursue my dreams, it just means that I will never get to hold anyone, to be there for them, and know that they are there for me too. Sorry for bad grammar and punctuation, I have no excuse as I am an english speaker, but its been a rough weekend. Anyone elses thoughts on this?