My first and only boyfriend, well he abused me, he beat me and treated me like shit, just cause were a gay couple doesn't meen there can't be abuse. but anyway thats not what im asking, when we were together, when he wanted sex he just took it, even if I didn't want to, I would always eventually just give in but sometimes would say or even scream no and fight back. He TOOK my virginity, I never gave it to him. and I get conflicting things from people I talk to, that he couldn't have raped me because, gays don't get raped or, we were dating or, I eventually said yes anyway. I'v never gotten a clear answer from anybody so I figured id ask here. did he rape me?