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Is it worth it

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I have been having alot of problems dealing with another year. I don't want to go thru another year of pain. I just barely got thru the Christmas Holiday without trying to end it and now I must try to start another year. Can anyone tell me why I should continue on with all of this crap and pain?


I feel the same way too...
But maybe you have something you love? Like your familie, friends, pets...
Just something you couldn't miss? Try to think only about that things...
And try to hold on:smile:
good luck:hug:


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The holidays are a horrible time. For those of us in pain it causes nothing but an increase in sadness and lonliness. But, the one good thing is that all this horrible celebrating will soon pass. and things will start to get back to normal.
And hey, be proud of yourself for lasting this long. It may not seem like much of an accomplishment, but it is. It takes a lot of strength to fight the suicidal urges and keep on going. And im sure if you thought about it you could think of some reason to keep on living. Theres always something, we just need to look in our very core to find it.
Please stay safe and if you ever want to talk, feel free to send me a PM.


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MOst of the time I get thru each day out of curiosity about what's coming tomorrow. I just put myself on 'autopilot' and keep on going. I can't give you a reason to keep on, only you can do that, but I can say that as long as there's life, there's hope.:smile: When you're dead, there's no way to change anything.:sad:

I hope you'll find the reason(s) you need to keep going, and please don't hesitate to come here often to vent your feelings and let off steam.

love and hugs,

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