is porn allright?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Shock, Jun 16, 2009.

  1. Shock

    Shock Well-Known Member

    i am worried because i think i like porn too much. i feel like im a pervert and feel ashamed all the time. its pretty hard to post this now actually. what do you guys think? is it moral to watch porn?
     
  2. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Depends on your moral point of view. It's encouraging misogyny and prostitution... But I, and many, many others still do it.
     
  3. reefer madness

    reefer madness Account Closed

    I like porn.
     
  4. Pad

    Pad Well-Known Member

    I don't think it's wrong at all. I try not to watch porn, but this isn't because I think it's not right, I just find it so false. Having looked into what makes men and women tick in bed I can see that in most porn it actaully wouldn't be that enjoyable. Oh and don't get me started on the noises >.<

    But if you enjoy it and it helps you find out what you are into i think its a good thing. You shouldn't feel like a pervert for having desires, its completely natural and one of our basic needs
     
  5. shades

    shades Staff Alumni

    Most porn available involves men and women who have consented to participate. If it is the "legal" type of porn then I don't think there is any problem with it.

    There is, of course, illegal porn and other types which fall into a gray area and there you would be dealing with your own moral code, not to mention the law, if it is of the illegal type.
     
  6. cult logic

    cult logic Staff Alumni

    Where would I be without porn?

    Nowhere!
     
  7. Godsdrummer

    Godsdrummer Guest

    I personally never had a problem with it. But my ex did. :biggrin:


    Still I wonder how other women really feel about it.
     
  8. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Well, I've had girlfriends encourage it and watch it with me, and exchange favourites... But I could certainly understand the relation between that and cheating.

    Not that porn is particularly enjoyable when you've got a girl, anyhow...
     
  9. colt45

    colt45 Well-Known Member

    It is like a drug form the mind and can cause problems in the long run. I know I have been there.
     
  10. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni

    I agree with Colt. Easy to become obsessed with just as anything else. But nothing inherently wrong with it at all. I watch often too :biggrin:! No shame here.
     
  11. colt45

    colt45 Well-Known Member

    thank you for being direct and understanding.