I've never had a problem getting over relationships in the past. In fact typically when a relationship ended I felt relieved, having known on some level it wasn't right. Then her. It's been over four years since we broke up, though we did spend the next three meeting up to sleep together "one last time" several times. I think about her all the time, and I miss her like crazy. We have mutual friends who insist on telling me how she's doing which one one hand I want but the mention of her name always brings back those feelings. Anyone else dealing with this, carrying a torch for someone from your past? Perhaps does everyone have someone that still affects them years later?