i heard from one of my friends once, that if you think you're fat, and if you obsess over losing weight, then you are anorexic. but hey, that's what just what i've been told. so yeah
This is not at all true. If it was, then half the woman out there would have anorexia nervosa.
The real diagnosis criteria are
'Diagnostic Criteria (taken from
http://www.mentalhealth.com/dis1/p21-et01.html)
~Refusal to maintain body weight at or above a minimally normal weight for age and height (e.g., weight loss leading to maintenance of body weight less than 85% of that expected; or failure to make expected weight gain during period of growth, leading to body weight less than 85% of that expected).
~Intense fear of gaining weight or becoming fat, even though underweight.
~Disturbance in the way in which one's body weight or shape is experienced, undue influence of body weight or shape on self-evaluation, or denial of the seriousness of the current low body weight.
~In postmenarcheal females, amenorrhea, i.e., the absence of at least three consecutive menstrual cycles. (A woman is considered to have amenorrhea if her periods occur only following hormone, e.g., estrogen, administration.)
Specify type:
~Restricting Type: during the current episode of Anorexia Nervosa, the person has not regularly engaged in binge-eating or purging behavior (i.e., self-induced vomiting or the misuse of laxatives, diuretics, or enemas)
~Binge-Eating/Purging Type: during the current episode of Anorexia Nervosa, the person has regularly engaged in binge-eating or purging behavior (i.e., self-induced vomiting or the misuse of laxatives, diuretics, or enemas) '
Often a person can have what is called disordered eating, which is where eating habits are not 'normal'. It might be that this is what you are experiencing. It is sensible to talk to a doctor about it.
Hopefully this post will have informed you of the facts of anorexia, as opposed to going on hearsay.
Good luck and take care