It hurts

[KirstyMissJimBob]

.........still so very very much

 

[mdmefontaine]

hey- just saying- i care about you -

what is going on? :hug:- if you want to talk - pm me ..

 

[Stranger1]

Hey Kirsty,
So sorry you are still suffering. Just want you to know your not alone we are here and will be anytime you need a shoulder to lean on...

 

[Petal]

:hug: Kirsty, I'm sorry you're having a hard time coping, I'm here if you need to talk. Maybe you should give therapy a try hun? :hug:

 

[~Claire]

Hi Kirsty,

Sorry to hear you're still feeling low. You are still grieving hun & that takes time.

We are all here for you :hug:.

Take care of yourself, Claire xx

 

[Scum]

Do you want to talk about what's going on for you right now?

 

[aoeu]

hug^n, n sufficiently large to make it all better...

 

[KirstyMissJimBob]

yeah im still hurting from losing Chubby
im considering joining him, everyday something else goes on to help me push to the decision, all i have to do is make sure all my animals find a good home, so im not joining Chubby until then.Cos i cant take this pain anymore, he was like my bro.

 

[soliloquise]

kirsty i relate to this.. just lost a fav cat.. have a load of animals to rehome if i do it. pm if you want to talk? x

 

[flowerpot]

:hug:

 

[jameslyons]

Hey Kristy,

I'm sure I can't begin to empathize with your pain. Losing your cousin and then your friend must have been terrible. I can understand the desire to join our passed friends as my uncle took his life about a month ago. It's very difficult to come to terms with such a painful loss.

But as somebody who has contemplated suicide, can you honestly say that you wish for your relatives to follow you? You intimately know the suffering going on in their minds, but you also know they wouldn't want you to follow after them.

Please stay strong, hun.

:hug:

 

[KirstyMissJimBob]

im trying so hard, to keep it together. A holiday might do me good

i feel this "feeling" in my heart its uneasy and its hard to explain, like it feels like something is trying to get out, i could go somewhere and scream and let this "thing" this "feeling" out

 

[Godsdrummer]

I havent had the chance to know you yet but I know the pain of loss.

All I can say is that I am sorry for what you are going thru and I can offer you a hug.:hug:

 

[Troubled2008]

yeah im still hurting from losing Chubby
im considering joining him, everyday something else goes on to help me push to the decision, all i have to do is make sure all my animals find a good home, so im not joining Chubby until then.Cos i cant take this pain anymore, he was like my bro.

I think you are looking at life the wrong way... and death, I might add... You should think about life and death as TRANSCENDING as opposed to DYING. Instead of focusing on all the negative energy associated with suicide and sadness, you should be grateful for your time together and someday, you will meet again. Through TRANSCENDENCE, not death. Get the whole sad dying notion out of your head. That's just a westernized idea which is outdated.