It hurts

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by KirstyMissJimBob, Feb 26, 2009.

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  1. KirstyMissJimBob

    KirstyMissJimBob Well-Known Member

    .........still so very very much :(
  2. mdmefontaine

    mdmefontaine Antiquities Friend

    hey- just saying- i care about you -

    what is going on? :hug:- if you want to talk - pm me ..
  3. Stranger1

    Stranger1 Forum Buddy & Antiquities Friend

    Hey Kirsty,
    So sorry you are still suffering. Just want you to know your not alone we are here and will be anytime you need a shoulder to lean on...
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    :hug: Kirsty, I'm sorry you're having a hard time coping, I'm here if you need to talk. Maybe you should give therapy a try hun? :hug:
  5. ~Claire

    ~Claire Well-Known Member

    Hi Kirsty,

    Sorry to hear you're still feeling low. You are still grieving hun & that takes time.

    We are all here for you :hug:.

    Take care of yourself, Claire xx
  6. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    Do you want to talk about what's going on for you right now?
  7. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    :)hug:)^n, n sufficiently large to make it all better...
  8. KirstyMissJimBob

    KirstyMissJimBob Well-Known Member

    yeah im still hurting from losing Chubby :( :( :(
    im considering joining him, everyday something else goes on to help me push to the decision, all i have to do is make sure all my animals find a good home, so im not joining Chubby until then.Cos i cant take this pain anymore, he was like my bro.
  9. soliloquise

    soliloquise Well-Known Member

    kirsty i relate to this.. just lost a fav cat.. have a load of animals to rehome if i do it. pm if you want to talk? x
  10. flowerpot

    flowerpot Well-Known Member

  11. jameslyons

    jameslyons Well-Known Member

    Hey Kristy,

    I'm sure I can't begin to empathize with your pain. Losing your cousin and then your friend must have been terrible. I can understand the desire to join our passed friends as my uncle took his life about a month ago. It's very difficult to come to terms with such a painful loss.

    But as somebody who has contemplated suicide, can you honestly say that you wish for your relatives to follow you? You intimately know the suffering going on in their minds, but you also know they wouldn't want you to follow after them.

    Please stay strong, hun.

  12. KirstyMissJimBob

    KirstyMissJimBob Well-Known Member

    im trying so hard, to keep it together. A holiday might do me good

    i feel this "feeling" in my heart its uneasy and its hard to explain, like it feels like something is trying to get out, i could go somewhere and scream and let this "thing" this "feeling" out
  13. Godsdrummer

    Godsdrummer Guest

    I havent had the chance to know you yet but I know the pain of loss.

    All I can say is that I am sorry for what you are going thru and I can offer you a hug.:hug:
  14. Troubled2008

    Troubled2008 Well-Known Member

    I think you are looking at life the wrong way... and death, I might add... You should think about life and death as TRANSCENDING as opposed to DYING. Instead of focusing on all the negative energy associated with suicide and sadness, you should be grateful for your time together and someday, you will meet again. Through TRANSCENDENCE, not death. Get the whole sad dying notion out of your head. That's just a westernized idea which is outdated.
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