So one of my main causes of depression is my inability to socialize. In particular it is my almost fear of talking to girls. Well I learned something today, it is easier than most of us think. :spaz: Sorry if I am a little giddy, as I am still coming off the high of actually succeeding in something. :hamtaro: Anyway, I met up with a couple of guys on another forum. One guy who was experienced in the whole bar hopping social scene, the other was a beginner like me. We all went out and explored the down town bar scene. The the more experienced guy told me to go talk to girls. He would point out a group and tell me to go talk to them. :hiding: <--- is my normal action, but he was very annoying and I would go talk to them to get away. The first group I talked to was the group I talked to the longest. After I ran away I thought h: That was easy, best part none of the groups blew me off. Hell they all seemed interested in me to a degree. It got easier as the night went on. Not to brag but I opened the most tonight :showoff: Ah yeah, I talked to 3 groups. I am damn proud of myself, even if my material was canned. Sitting here I wonder why I could not do this before. I wonder, why I was so scared to do it.... So all I can say guys is that it is easier than we realized. All the stuff he told me was stuff that I could have figured out. Well maybe not the details, but the simple question or how to spot a group to talk too... it is so much easier than I ever made it out to be. :mhmm: This may be my first success, but with it I feel like I can go out and practice on my won. It is not as hard as we think it is. :mhmm: There is hope if I can do it . Just wanted to share some of my success.