Its Okay.

Discussion in 'Rape and Abuse' started by Aimee_in_Wonderland, Jan 25, 2010.

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  1. Aimee_in_Wonderland

    Aimee_in_Wonderland Well-Known Member

    Ive often wonderd how people can say that.
    "Its okay"

    im still coming to terms of what he did to me. and i know it will effect me the rest of my life.

    But annoys me more than anything in the world its people saying "its okay"
    NO its not okay! when he did to me was never okay!
    Just because it happened when i was resonably younge doesnt make it ok. it doesnt mean im going to get over it and move on instantly.

    im cursed with what happened for the rest of my life.

    you think its OKAY
    to call me a lier.
    You doubt me on my story.

    I was a little girl! i didnt know any different.
    You let him Take that
    And YOU let him abuse that.

    It wasnt you. that attempted to kill yourself.
    It wasnt You That got the blame when he did kill himself.
    It wasnt you. That woke up screaming Every Night with Nightmares.
    It Wasnt you That feels dirty..

    I cant Believe You KNEW.
    And All them Years You let Him Abuse Me.
    Your just as bad,
    Your sick. and your twisted.

    Yet When i tried to come forward move on with my life.
    You called me a lier. You made out your husband was perfect.
    You made everyone look at me with disgust,
    You made everyone believe i was living in a fantasy world.

    You made me out to be a homewreacking monster.
    And him the Wonderful farther of 2... hard working,

    You Hid His Confession
    You Hid That Letter Away.
    You Was To ashamed to Admit What he Did,
    You Was To ashamed to Care For Me.
     
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    I agree totally it will never be OKay never and what he did he should be punished and he will be someday. I am glad you can stand your ground and stand up for you Don't let anyone make you feel less a person because you are in no way responsible for anything. take care okay stay strong
     
  3. cownes

    cownes Well-Known Member

    you are very right, it is never ok, what they do is never ok, and it usually makes me angry, when someone who doesnt have to live my life, says it'll be ok, they are not the ones with the thoughts going through there head, your head on replay with all the abuse, it is Never ok! :hug:
     
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