So here is my story... You guys have literally saved my life numorous times. I really don't know what I would have done without all the collective resources including this site Ive had available to me. So this is whats been going on. My wife left over a year and a half ago. She only took 2 of my three children. There ages 10,4 and 2. The 10 year old is with me. I met this wonderful woman that Ive been with for quite a while now. I love her dearly. Even as just a voice over the phone she was like a calming angel to me. She lives half way across the country. Ive gone to visit her and we hit it off well. If I pick up and leave to be with her. (Ive petitioned the courts to have my son go with me) It will probably be many years before I see my two little ones. I love all of my children dearly. To throw a wrench in things my job has offered me 45grand to walk away. Ive turned it down 3 times already but this time Id like to take it. Do I take the money run away with my son and leave my two younger ones or do I stay and risk being layed off anyway.