i've fucked up!

Discussion in 'Suicidal Thoughts and Feelings' started by cookiemonster, Mar 11, 2010.

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  1. cookiemonster

    cookiemonster Banned Member

    i'm sorry, i really am. i didn't mean to make things worse
     
  2. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    Take some deep breaths.

    Can you tell us more about what's going on?
     
  3. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    what happened emily?

    take a breath and talk to us, okay?

    what's going on?
     
  4. cookiemonster

    cookiemonster Banned Member

    i've messed things up in my selfishness.
     
  5. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    What have you done?

    Most things are reparable with time, so try not to panic. The more you tell us and explain, the more we can potentially help.
     
  6. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    we're selfish by nature

    what did you "mess up"?

    maybe we can help you fix it
     
  7. cookiemonster

    cookiemonster Banned Member

    i was trying to be helpful but in my attempts to help i made someone feel a lot worse.
     
  8. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    That's not selfish then. You did what you did with the person's best interests at heart. As people we all make mistakes, and things like this happen. Have you and the person spoken about it?
     
  9. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    All you can do is your best at any one time, and that's what you did. You can't do more than that.
     
  10. cookiemonster

    cookiemonster Banned Member

    we haven't spoken about it yet, but i loved the feeling it gave me. i did it for me not her
     
  11. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    You did what you did to be try and helpful to her, and that made you feel good? That sounds about right and fair and that applies to pretty much most people who do good and try to help people. That makes you human.
     
  12. cookiemonster

    cookiemonster Banned Member

    you keep saying that but i don't feel human.
     
  13. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    when you tried to help her did you start by thinking:

    "wow - helping her will make me feel good"

    or

    "wow - this person is hurting and needs help - maybe i can try"?

    i'm guessing the latter
     
  14. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    Sorry.

    What do you feel?
     
  15. cookiemonster

    cookiemonster Banned Member

    like i'm nothing, not important and have no reason to be here. i actually got told that i am worthless and a waste of time today
     
  16. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    Anyone who tries to help someone else is not worthless, OR a waste of time.

    The reason you don't feel human is because of how ill you are right now. It doesn't mean you're not human though, it just means you can't see the good things about yourself and give yourself a break.
     
  17. cookiemonster

    cookiemonster Banned Member

    i've always felt like this and prbably always will and she was only telling me what i already know. though she did get very told off for saying it seeing as it was on a beatbullying website
     
  18. Scum

    Scum Well-Known Member

    Maybe the fact she got told off shows that actually she wasn't right to say it?

    You don't always have to feel this way. It can be changed.
     
  19. cookiemonster

    cookiemonster Banned Member

    :( it can't but oh well
     
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