Well, for those of you who have been on this forum since or before 2006, you will most likely remember me. I still have the exact same ambitions as then, and in fact, I am in Japan right now, and I like it here much better than the US, and I will move here soon. I am in college, and I have been criticized for having the dream to go to Japan, just because it is different than your typical "American dream", but one thing people must respect is the wishes of others, yes if someone told me that they wish to go to the same city I was bullied harshly in, I would just wish him or her luck, because whatever place makes one upset makes another happy; there is something for everyone. Not everyone wants to live the "American dream", there are people out there like myself who believe that whatever dreams one has should approach it, it could be anywhere. The point is that if you feel that you should criticize someone for having a different ambition from yourself, think first. Think about how you would feel if the person next to you curses your dream place like it is horrible, or something of that matter. Thank you for having an open ear on this, and cheers!