Ok I know this thread is getting a bit tiresome but for anyone who's made it this far here are my final thoughts on the subject:
A man and his young son discover that their pet cat has died. The man looks sad for a moment, shrugs his shoulders and says "Ah well, it's only a cat, the world's full of them, we'll buy a new one tomorrow". The child is really distressed, crying his eyes out and sobs, "But that was our cat, it was a special cat, it can never be replaced"
Neither person is right nor are they wrong, perhaps the father should be more empathetic and the child more rational. So in the end I guess they both should find some middle ground which helps them out the most.