Just cant get a date

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Roads, Apr 28, 2008.

  1. Roads

    Roads Active Member

    When I ask a girl out, I always get rejected. I'm almost 21 and I've never been on a date or had a girlfriend or anything. Its extremely depressing.

    I AM a good looking guy. I try to have self confidence. I CAN and DO talk to girls without social anxiety problems, but I cannot get a girlfriend no matter what I do. I've tried online dating sites too, they are worthless.

    I know that I suffer from the supposed 'nice guy syndrome', and that it prevents me from being attractive to women. I've been in the 'friend zone' with a number of girls.

    Going through my college years, or as my dad likes to call them "the best years of your life", in such a depressed state because of this KILLS me inside every waking moment.

    I guess my question is, is life worth living if you'll never be able to experience a relationship with someone? (my answer is generally no)
     
  2. pastelmoon

    pastelmoon Active Member

    Try not to seem desperate when you talk to girls. Being nice is a good thing but some guys can seem overly desperate and that is a turn off. Nice guys are great to have as boyfriends. Those were the types of guys I preferred to date. Just make sure you don't cross the desperate line and you'll be fine. Keep asking for phone numbers and eventually you'll find someone that matches you.
     
  3. Fishman

    Fishman Guest

    same and I'm 24, I only get jerked around and all the good ones and girls that I know are taken. I guess whats left for me is the hopes of something showing up in the bargin bin or the left over section....:sad:
     
  4. bleach

    bleach Well-Known Member

    I wish I could tell you what to do, but I don't really know, either.
    :sad:
    Although come to think of it, I'm such a pussy that i don't even try, so I guess I know whose fault it is.
     
  5. A_Loser

    A_Loser Well-Known Member

    Man if i was good looking, i would conquer entire goddamn world :tongue:
     
  6. FarBeyondGone

    FarBeyondGone Active Member

    Im The Same Way My Whole Life Ive Watched Assholes Being Worshipped By Women While All I Do Is Get Shit Upon. Fuck It
     
  7. Suicidal Risk

    Suicidal Risk Member

    I said the same thing to myself once, now im engaged...What I'm saying is never give up on yourself or else you have given up altogether.
     
  8. You're not missing much, a good woman is few and far between. I have been with my share of women and I have found they will ALL eventually betray you.

    Although it is pretty nice while it lasts.
     
  9. music

    music Well-Known Member

    the only times ive came close...actually had girls drooling over me was when i purposefully acted like a total jackass prick to prove a point....needless to say it wasn't me and i had nothing to do with them.

    there's no fucking point to life without love. don't listen to me though, i'm in the same boat, just barely older.

    life just likes to step on some people.
     
  10. incognito

    incognito Well-Known Member

    bleach, do you mind not using "pussy" as a synonym for coward? Thanks.
     
  11. no way I love to use the word pussy as a slang word for coward,,,means little cat that is scared. :dry:
     
  12. Pioneer

    Pioneer Well-Known Member

    Dude if you find away out of that "not getting a date" thing then pm me plz.:cry:
     
  13. LastCrusade

    LastCrusade Well-Known Member