I'm a young guy in university but I feel so lost. I used to be very social but over time I have become a more solitary person. I need a girl to bond(physically but not sexually) with but don't know where to start or what to say anymore. I really need someone special in my life This is my first problem My second is that I don't know what to do with my life. I've never had a real job and I'm coming out of 2nd year. I want a good job but don't know exactly what I want or even where to start. I've never been able to find a solid interest. Things I get into (eg. learning guitar) always seem to fade away. I'm sick of something before I have a chance to climb the ladder. I feel like I'm at 0. No real friends, I don't have a good bond with my family (not sure I want one) and see no future. I don't really know who I am or what I want. What can I do?