I know. I know it's petty to complain about these things. Another 20 something guy complaining about dating, how obnoxious, right? Truthfully, I'm in no rush to be in a relationship. But I'm just sick and tired of not even having the choice. There was this girl, not a friend but someone in the same circle of friends. If you know the type of asshole who thinks they know everything about everyone, and thinks their opinion is so important that they throw it in everyone's face, that was her. One day I bumped into her and she just blatantly said "I look at you and just think... who are you really". I hate that someone who barely knows me can have such an effect on me, but... in this case, she was actually right. It did resonate with me. I'm... no one really. I'm reasonably funny, but look around and there's hundreds of guys more fun and exciting than me just around the corner I'm not bad looking, maybe even somewhat handsome, but I'm never gonna turn any heads when I walk into a room I'm smart enough, I suppose, but no intellectual heavyweight I'm not rich I haven't accomplished anything of note I don't really have much of that sex appeal or charisma that draws people to you I'm boring I'm not talented I have my interests and hobbies, but I'm not particularly passionate about anything. I just don't feel it I don't stand out much, apart from maybe my height. No cool piercings or tattoos, no large muscles, no cute dimples or features that stand out. Sure, I could change some of that to an extent. But I don't wanna be fake and force something I don't already want for myself, just to draw more attention I see no reason any girl would be into me. Sure, girls like me, a good half or even more of my friends are female. But I don't excite anyone. I'm not stuck on anyone's mind. No one tells their friends about how much they want my attention. At best, I'm just another dick for a bored girl when they can't get the attention of more interesting men. I just want to be wanted sometimes.