Apologies for the issue with a bizarre redirect on the site earlier today. There was a large server update and an error in an IP address had the traffic routing wrongly. No hacking or anything nefarious and nothing to worry about. Sorry for any stress/anxiety caused. Very best wishes - SF Admin
I don't think you're as bad as her just because you've given up. She goes out of her way and uses energy to hurt them. Sure, spending energy to help is a good thing, but giving up is neither good nor bad. It's one of those actions that keeps you in the middle of the road--you're still a perfectly decent person.