Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Wastingecho, Apr 4, 2013.

  1. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    my wife is working a temp job this week in the city

    she's not a regular commuter so she has to take the train like i do

    a day hasn't gone by without me getting one or more text complaints - my train is running late, it's so warm in here, blah, blah, blah

    now i get one saying "i can't wait for this job to be over"

    what the hell - i forgot - she must be getting SOOOO many fucking job offers that she can afford to be picky

    now i'm fed up and disgusted and get to sit next to her for the train ride home while she goes on

    does she think i make the daily trip for the goddamned hell of it? i've been doing this for too damned long - i don't want to hear her bitching about the commute, about how bored she is, about having to work in the city for ONE DAMNED WEEK

    we need the stupid money so just shut the hell up and do what has to be done
  2. Sadeyes

    Sadeyes Staff Alumni

    I agree with your position about so many things...not about people sharing their pain or distress, but the times when someone complains about something that is not a trauma and can just get through it without milking it for all of the drama points...sorry you have no respite...can you take an earlier train until she is finished with the job?
  3. paulhewson

    paulhewson Well-Known Member

    Your wife must have been a pampered housecat in a previous life.
  4. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    Have a pampered cat - at least the cat cuddles with me
  5. jxdama

    jxdama Staff Member Safety & Support

    tell her to be positive.
  6. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    I think she is incapable - always finds sonething to complain about no matter what
  7. jxdama

    jxdama Staff Member Safety & Support

    is divorce a possibility?
  8. Wastingecho

    Wastingecho Well-Known Member

    less stress if i just die