hey, what do you mean it will soon happen again? ((((gentle hugs)))) Did i miss something? Is someone about to say or do something? Can we brainstorm ways of you protecting you from this?
No matter what they say, it's them, not you. Their pain and cruelty is theirs. They own it and they should keep it under lock and key within their own miserable existence and not allow it to creep out spreading to others, contaminating the lives of others.
It's not you. It does not belong to you.
No matter what they say, nor how they try to convince you, it's not true/real, I don't care what words they use. If you doubt this, you come here and get a reality check from all of us. hey, when someone does this to you, close your eyes for a moment and try to keep in your head, the voices of myself and others here who support you, and listen to the words we say to you. you know we would not be telling you cruel things and tell me, are these people more valid or worthwhile than we are, is what they say more reliable, do they care as deeply as we do? They are spewing lies at you. You don't need that in your life. you have so much goodness inside and they do not deserve even a moment of your time or presence. You cannot support them in what they do to you or to other people.
:hug: :hug:
Love you Kiddo!!!!!!!!!!!!!
oh and if need be, perhaps we can find a lead pipe (did i actually say that?)