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Lack of desire?


Well-Known Member
Ever since my anorexia got really worse I have had problems with getting intimate with people-even if I loved them. Of course...how could you not O.o
But now I am fine. I feel pretty confident, I like myself as I am, I do not selfharm or starve anymore...
Why does it not become better than?
I got to no so many men lately who all honestly worked their asses off to impress me and some I in fact liked...really...but then I told them to just leave me alone...or i simply ran away.
I even kicked my best friend away when he wanted to hug me! =O
What can I do?

total eclipse

SF Friend
Staff Alumni
I think getting some therapy to help you understand why you do this will help you. See if you can talk to your doctor to set up some councilling for you hugs

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