This post probably attracted guys first and thats fine, but this post will be for both genders I chose my title because it would get attention, because it does. Women are often objectified, but none more commonly than that of a woman with an ample chest. They're objectified, insulted, persecuted and abused, for what? Simply because they have developed more or more quickly, than other girls. Now, I am not here to rant about large breasted women, but rather, all women and men. Women are objectified and they shouldnt be, they're human beings with thoughts and feelings. That said, women; you're not idiots and while some men are, not all of us are and we're not all only interested in sex. And men; understand that women can be just as sexual as you but they have greater self-control when it comes to those urges, be patient and kind, confident and dependable. Sex isnt the only that matters in this world, it can help a relationship and hurt it, but it is not the only that matters. Women; if guys stare at your chest, its unfortunately because of how they grew up, more often than not its from parents or older siblings who simply understood the wrong stuff. Men; eye contact. But I'm sure you've all heard this before, some of the women may be wondering 'how the heck do you know so much' or rather 'where do you get off?' Well, I am not a woman, but I do understand some of the crap you have to deal with, for example ; puberty almost always before boys, menstrual cycles, emotional range of a rainbow, the curse of early development, some girls are jealous of other girls and can cause fighting, even ruin friendships and I know most of all, how it feels to develop early and be awkward. See, I was nearly 6 feet tall when I was about 10, I was still a kid and yet people mistook me for older, I was treated different, I felt awkward everywhere I went. So dont ever say I dont understand, I may never understand it all, but I understand some.