To let go is not to cut myself off; it is the realization that I can’t control another. To let go is not to enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences. To let go is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands. To let go is not to try to change or blame another; I can only change myself. To let go is not to fix, but to be supportive. To let go is not to judge, but allow another to be a human being. To let go is not to be protective; it is to permit another to face reality. To let go is not to deny, but to accept. To let go is not to nag, scold, or argue, but to search out my own shortcomings and correct them. To let go is not to adjust everything to my desires, but to take each day as it comes, and to cherish the moment. To let go is not to criticize and regulate anyone, but to try to become what I dream I can be. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and live for the future. To let go is to fear less and love more. *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ 1. You should not worry, for worry is the most unproductive of all human activities. 2. You should not be fearful, for most of the things we fear never come to pass. 3. You should never cross bridges before one comes to them, for no one yet has succeeded in accomplishing this. 4. You should face each problem as it comes. One can only handle one at a time anyway. 5. You should not take problems to bed with you, for they make very poor bedfellows. 6. You should not borrow other people's problems. They can better care for them then you can. 7. You should not try to live yesterday for good or ill, it is forever gone. Concentrate on what is happening in your life and be happy now. 8. You should be a good listener, for only when you listen do you hear ideas different from your own. It is hard to learn something new when you are talking, and some people do know more than you do. 9. You should not become "bogged down" by frustration, for 90% of it is rooted in self-pity and will only interfere in possitive action. 10. You should count your blessings, never overlooking the small ones, for a lot of the small blessings add up to a big one.