I've noticed it, and maybe it's only in my house and with my friends, but I get bullied worse by my brother than I ever have been my anyone else. My little brother gets set off by the littlest things. Just a few minutes ago I was joking around and sprayed freebreaze on his shirt, and he freaked out. Called me a whore, a bitch, and a ******. Every little thing sets hime off, and he never takes responsibility for the things he does. When he gets mad too, he gets violent.. And he's even admitted he doesn't know why he gets mad. He's twelve years old, almost thirteen! He's even gone so far as to say he'd kill me, and to pull his belt off and swing it at me. He's just a kid, and he's got a pretty good life. Lots of friends, he's amazing at sports, but he gets so angry and every time he's frustrated he lashes out, if not with words than with fists. He fights so much, he's even been reccommended for anger management at school! Am I just being a dramatic big sister, or is there something wrong with my little brother? Is he a bully?