I am male and live with girls (just started), it is damaging my self esteem. Maybe it isnt because they're girls, more likely it is because of their lives versus mine. They are constantly talking about sex and sexual things. Something I am not getting and never have and am nowhere near to achieving. They talk about how good someone was, or how bad they were, what that particular man couldnt do right. Which just adds to my fear of inadequacy. When we go out they get with guys, kiss guys, even one's they dont care for, i guess for esteem reasons of their own. Whilst I cant get anyone, certainly not in that mannor. When we are together in the flat they are talking about the txt messages they are making with guys at that time. I feel so bad about who I am and what I dont have.