Loneliness and parties

Does this happen to anyone else?

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#1
Not feeling suicidal but feeling stupid.

I Always feel so alone and feel like i have no friends. I want to be invited out to places and do fun things.
So i get invited to a party and what do i do? Hide in a bedroom because im fucking stupid and to fucked in the head to socialise
 
#5
Thats how i feel. My friends always walk off to another group or someone else and i jusy stand there. Its feels like i get a lump in mu throat and idk how to talk to anyone
You're not alone. I find it really hard to go to public parties because I never have anyone to be with. I'm not saying it's easy but others can definitely relate to it.
 
#7
Just remember there's as much pressure on them to make conversation with you as you're feeling. Small talk is never great, but it can lead to something better so maybe try just saying Hi, ask who they know at the party or if you know that how did they meet them or if you know that are they enjoying it, and if it goes no where well you're in no worse a situation that standing by yourself.
 

just_some_guy

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#8
My friends always walk off to another group or someone else and i jusy stand there.
When I was in high school, I knew this girl (we met in a local chat room, back when those were things) who would literally call me and say, "I'm so excited! I've been invited to a party with all these popular people, and I'm leaving right NOW!" I'd try to ask whether I could go with her, but she always hung up before I finished the question. She truly wasn't trying to be mean; she was just completely unaware of how other people felt.

That reminds me... A few years later, we briefly hung out in person, and she told me about how her last boyfriend mistreated her. I reminded her that I'd always been nice to her and wouldn't mistreat her if we dated. She agreed that I had always been nice to her and that I probably would be a great boyfriend. Then she left, and I haven't heard from her since.
 

Petal

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#9
May I ask how old you are? I don't go to parties, never did .. so you are not alone there. Are you reclusive, if so I think you might benefit from therapy. Don't let yourself get down over this. You are important, too important to worry about getting invited to parties etc... please keep talking to us here :)
 
#10
May I ask how old you are? I don't go to parties, never did .. so you are not alone there. Are you reclusive, if so I think you might benefit from therapy. Don't let yourself get down over this. You are important, too important to worry about getting invited to parties etc... please keep talking to us here :)
Im 21 and ive got an"action plan) to see a therapist but i cant seem to make the appointment to see them.
 
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