I know it's not exactly abuse or anything but what does it count as if there is a certain family member of the opposite sex who keeps acting in a weird way towards me. Like he'll always make sexual comments about me and to me and it's nothing direct like 'let's have sex' but it's clear what the connotations are. I also notice him looking at certain parts of me in a kinda creepy way too. He's a lot older than me (I'm only 17 and he's in his fifties) but it's really creeping me out. I always feel uncomfortable in the same room as him, especially if we're alone in case he did try anything. The rest of the family just ignores it and treats it as if its normal, but I dont think its normal for a member of your family of the opposite sex who is a lot older than you to be like that. It's not just joking, you know? I hope I'm not just being paranoid, but it's been going on since I was a kid. I know it's not like proper abuse or anything but it just creeps me out a bit.