Yay for making a topic that's bound to be infested with hypocrisy! Simple question. Do you prefer a girl/guy with all looks and little personality, all personality and little looks, or an above average balance of both? Personality, I prefer the third one. I think that anyone who says they're all for personality regardless of how ugly the person is are lying and haven't been in such situation ): And no, looking for a girl who takes care of the way she looks isn't shallow or superficial.