Love vs Solitude

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by absolution, Jun 20, 2010.


Love Or Solitude?

  1. Love

    28 vote(s)
  2. Solitude

    19 vote(s)
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  1. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    I find myself seeing love as just another form of pain... Love seems scary because you basically rely on that someone... Yet being alone also seems scary :unsure: hmmm o.o
    what do you guys think? Which do you prefer? The feeling of solitude or love?
  2. Remedy

    Remedy Chat & Forum Buddy

    Love, but real love. There's no better feeling than someone meaning the world to you and knowing they feel the same.
  3. Sapphire

    Sapphire Well-Known Member

    Solitude for sure. Independence FTW!
  4. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    Ive been thinking more about it and i think it all depends on what kind of love. Romantic? I would choose solitude....but like a fatherly or motherly love i would :unsure:
  5. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

  6. Sapphire

    Sapphire Well-Known Member

    As far as I'm concerned being "in love" is a powerful thing. And some people get swooped up by it and don't keep their feet on the ground. Which can be dangerous. It doesn't have to be but it can be. I've seen so many people who said they were in love with people who treated them badly... It's saddening. Also, being "in love" is sort of a temporary thing it seems to me.

    Anyway, I'd never base a relationship on that. Like Mark Kermode said; any relationship based solely on romance is sort of doomed to fail.
  7. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

    Eeeeek you gave me more to think about >.< :laugh: :hug:
  8. Little_me

    Little_me Well-Known Member

    I am so fed up with solitude. So so fed up... :cry:
  9. absolution

    absolution Forum Buddy

  10. Sapphire

    Sapphire Well-Known Member

  11. Madam Mim

    Madam Mim Well-Known Member

    Love hurts, but I can't imagine living without it. If only he loved me too....

  12. boo

    boo Well-Known Member

    I had to choose solitude cause it's the lesser evil of the two... :D
  13. Ziggy

    Ziggy Antiquitie's Friend

    We have a choice?
  14. Rowan

    Rowan Banned Member

    That is a good question,
    I wish that we did.
  15. Domo

    Domo Well-Known Member

    While i agree love can be equally as painful, there is also a chance for a lot of happiness.

    So given the choice, i would choose love, as solitude is never going to give you those same possibilities.
  16. KittyGirl

    KittyGirl Well-Known Member

    had real love-- it's rare; and I don't want it or fake love ever again, so I'm going with solitude all the way.

    love hurts too much for someone as weak as me.
  17. WildCherry

    WildCherry ADMIN

    I chose love.
  18. Dave_N

    Dave_N Banned Member

    I suppose solitude works better for me, but that's only because I like being alone. :)
  19. Viro

    Viro Well-Known Member

  20. 1izombie

    1izombie Well-Known Member

    i will never have love so all im left with is solitude but its made worse cause im craving something that i'll never have..its like a forced solitude...
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