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love

do you think its wrong to love more than one person at the same time????

  • yes

    Votes: 15 26.8%

  • no

    Votes: 27 48.2%

  • depends

    Votes: 14 25.0%
  • Total voters
    56
D

Dana..

Well-Known Member
#3
#3
It depends, i love my mum + dad at the same time, but i doubt i'm ever gonna get a girlfriend / boyfriend so.
I texted you lol.
 
A

aoeu

Well-Known Member
#6
#6
No. There's a handful of people in my life I'd say I love, all very odd relationships. If I were in a relationship with any of them, I wouldn't act with any others, however.
 
nagisa

nagisa

Staff Alumni
#7
#7
I think it's possible to fall in love with two people at the same time. Possibly even more, I don't know since I'm not in that situation. But to me it doesn't make sense to say no, you can't fall in love with two people at the same time cause it sounds like you're saying (at least to me) that you can't fall in love with more than one person your entire life, which isn't true at all. No one decides the time they fall in love. No one even picks who they fall in love with. It just happens. That's just what I believe.
 
fromthatshow

fromthatshow

Staff Alumni
SF Supporter
#8
#8
I think it's wrong not to love more than one person at the same time.
Love should be shared for every human being on this Earth.

But I'm guessing you weren't talking about true love. I'm guessing you were talking about romantic love, which I would argue isn't really love so much as infatuation anyway.
 
R

Reki

Well-Known Member
#10
#10
I don't think there's anything wrong with being in love with two people, sometimes that's just how the cookie crumbles. Being involved with someone and seeing someone else at the same time however, very wrong.
 
J

jam1e

#11
#11
Reki said:
I don't think there's anything wrong with being in love with two people, sometimes that's just how the cookie crumbles. Being involved with someone and seeing someone else at the same time however, very wrong.
Click to expand...
I wish life was that simple Reki.

But i can tell you it is very stressful to say the least!

High as a kite one minute and very low the next, so draining!:nerves:
 
S

serivok

Active Member
#14
#14
its impossible to control your feelings, but you have to control your actions. if you don't you'll end up hurting people. but to answer the question, its not wrong to feel love for more than one person.
 
B

breaking

Active Member
#15
#15
I guess it all depends on what you mean by love. To love someone as your fellow human being .. you can love many .. but to love 2 people romantically .. I think it's a case of you love someone, as being in love and you escape with the other. In terms of relationships .. it's an unfulfilled need in your current relationship. This is all my opinoin but I think it's also a need in us for validation outside of the who we are with. For some reason, that spark has gone by the wayside and we seek that approval and validation from another. It's a fear of making a decission to be with onen or the other and losing them and ending up alone. If you love someone, as a special signiticant other, then you will be devoted to them. Search yourself and find out why you "love" two people. maybe it's the doting and the fighting over you .. the need to be needed .. I dunno. I've been vicitim of 3 relationships where I was cheated on .. he loved us both ... .. my ex left me 6 years ago but throughout our entire marriage he was unfaithful. For some reason he needed validation from many women . but he was also a mama's boy .. couldn't do anything without his mother's approval. And she doted on him even in his 30s like he was a child. Who he left me for was 13 years older than him and treated him like a child. He didn't want to grow up. This is just my experience but it makes sense to me. What do you guys think. Since the people here are already in a compromised emotional position, maybe the lovingn of moer than one is really our need to be understood and possibly the one we are with originally we feel do not understand .. just my thoughts.
 
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