So, there is this guy I really like a lot. We use to be dating over a year ago then he dumped me because I was being supposedly to paranoid and accused him of cheating on me. He said it wasn't right to be together if I didn't trust him. Frankly, I think he hit on Julia* while being with me. He was dating this girl Julia on the internet after we broke up who turned out to be a guy. I think he might have had some other hidden girl friend hidden somewhere. >.< Since, I could never actually prove my accusations I decided to forgive him and talk to him every once in a while. I was so angry when he dumped me. I cried for days and cut myself over it to make the pain go away. A lot of my friend suggusted I stop talking to him that he was bad for me and only going to hurt me. I liked him so much and didn't listen. So is it normal to still like someone after so long after they hurt you? Is it normal to like someone even though they might be bad for you? *Julia, isn't his/her real name. Just made it up as a substitute name.