Not everyone with suicidal tendancies is always gloomy and fragile. Some of us have a dark, even pitch black sense of humour about it. Some days we feel upbeat, chipper and playful - this doesn't mean we're 'trolls'. There are some on this site who are bedridden, terminally ill, severely handicapped who understandably feel suicidal; while SOME of the relatively more fortunate here, simply haven't come out of their introverted shells. 'Tough Love' works wonders for such people in my first hand experience, but sadly, whenever I try it in the chat room (and actually start getting through to them) I'm warned, censored, kicked or threatened with banning! Molly Coddling isn't the uniform answer for all (or maybe any) of the desperados on SF, so.... ...FFS.....loosen up. Somebody was actually chastised the other day for typing 'die die die die' in the chatroom for Christ's sake.