Not sure really why im writing this but, i was just reading stuff and ive noticed how affected i am by reading these posts they make me sick and nervous. Im a guy and as far as i know nothings ever happened to me. But i cant even read posts on here i read like one and its made me feel all sick and weird? Is this normal for a guy? I know things have happened to family members and ex-girlfriends and stuff but i cant even let that go i get flashbacks and imagine terrible things that have happened to them. And when im having sex sometimes i get flashbacks then or if i know the person im with has had something happen to them i paniac that they get flashbacks? by the way i get flashbacks but ive never seen anything happen to anyone i just imagine it and its horrible. Is this normal? i think part of me feels guilty for not stopping it from happening not that i could of anyway but i just feel so hopeless cuz i cant make it stop.