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Making real friends on SF

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Shannew, Sep 26, 2017.

  1. Ash600

    Ash600 SF Creative SF Supporter

    That's a great idea, I'm in if that's ok. What I've noticed here on SF, is that there are more genuine people here than what I know IRL who are just users, people who come out of the woodwork to try to tap me up for something and then dissapear straight afterwards.
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  2. Sign me up! Shan, I think we are friends already hun :) I love this idea!
  3. drinty

    drinty I'd rather be a Cat.

    I'd like friends when I'm about please, I seem to freak rl people out. Trouble is on some days I don't wanna talk, others I don't shut up.
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  4. ShoegazeDaydream

    ShoegazeDaydream ~Kid at Heart~

    Yes, I think this is a great thread and thanks for posting this up.

    I love this idea. :)
  5. Jonathan R.

    Jonathan R. Well-Known Member

    I am willing.
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  6. Magree

    Magree Well-Known Member

    Count me in as well sound like a fab idea xx
  7. Badger

    Badger SF Supporter

  8. Auerbach

    Auerbach Well-Known Member

    Definitely, always up for a good chat.
  9. Justatiredsoul

    Justatiredsoul Well-Known Member

    This is a really great idea shann , I have to admit I've met the most kind caring and helpful people here & im more than happy to talk but my inbox on here is best as I'm on the dodgy phone.. I'd hate anyone to think I'm not replying in pm but sometimes I don't get the messages there.
    Peace & love ❤️
  10. Shannew

    Shannew Chat Pro

    Thanks guys :D
    For those who are confused, the idea is that at least we know who's up for a proper chat, so if you see any of these wonderful people online feel free to hit em up :)
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  11. HumanExMachina

    HumanExMachina Pizza Spaceman Forum Pro SF Artist SF Supporter

    I don't know for sure what a 'real' friend is, but I think that all of us who find ourselves here can find amongst the threads the friends that we need.
  12. Shannew

    Shannew Chat Pro

    Not necessarily, sometimes we want someone to talk to and understand us and it can be hard if we don't know who's willing
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  13. HumanExMachina

    HumanExMachina Pizza Spaceman Forum Pro SF Artist SF Supporter

    Is chatting seen as being superior to replying to threads? In my own experience, threads seem to be better thought out and more coherent, and they get better thought out and more coherent responses. When I've gone into chat, it's mostly,

    'Hey, what's up'
    'What's going on'
    'Hi (username)'

    Did I drop into chat at the wrong times?
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  14. Harmony2

    Harmony2 Well-Known Member SF Supporter

    oops thought you meant PMs -refer to the last one I just sent you:p
    Last edited: Oct 15, 2017
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  15. Kira

    Kira SF Gelfling Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I totally have this problem too! I think that's why I keep my status invisible because some days - ok, most days - I don't feel like talking but like being logged on so I don't feel so alone. I'm a big lurker.

    Bottom line is, I have some friends and I want more friends but I'm a failure at keeping up communication. I barely "say" anything so why would anyone bother with me? They probably think I have my head stuck up my arse.
    The other problem is that I'm a talker not a texter or typer. Obviously this forum can't provide that. IDK anymore. Sorry.
    Last edited: Oct 16, 2017
  16. That's what I've been doing too!
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  17. drinty

    drinty I'd rather be a Cat.

    I'm the same. It's difficult isn't it?
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  18. Dawn

    Dawn Well-Known Member

    I'm in too!
    Kira I'm awake at all different hours due to pain issues insomnia etc. Talk to me anytime
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  19. Kira

    Kira SF Gelfling Staff Alumni SF Supporter

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  20. Dawn

    Dawn Well-Known Member

    You are so welcome :) @Kira I am a lurker too and on here at all kinds of hours
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