Most people I meet are online because those at work simply are not connected and my family is disperse and small. So I never gave it thought, but I always thought friendship was a reciprocating process to which each other has a connection and memory of each other. Like 'I remember when you told me you were sick, how are you feeling now?' However all my online friends have become just people who call up if they want to get together for an event or movie. When we are together they rarely ask about me and we just sit there watching the event and then go home afterwards until the next meet up . Is this a true friendship? Do you have friends that are just like this? Should I even consider them as friends? It feels so cold that we don't dive deeper into each other's lives. Don't people want a true friendship? I mean what is the meaning of just calling a person up to get together if they are not going to put the effort to know you? I feel it is sometimes like neighbors or coworkers getting together, but not friends. Tell me if I'm wrong to see this like that?