This is sort of a rant, but people's opinions are welcome, so I'd rather not post this in Soap Box. I am not perfect, I have body issues and hate myself alot. With that said, I'd really like to be able to talk to women, go on dates, fall in love. A problem with men and women, is communication, not in relationships, but at all. Men give advice to other men about women Women give advice to other women about men. Maybe we should talk to each other instead? Everyone is different, unique. What usually grinds my gears is when women generalize men. That we're all only into super models or some such crap and all we think of is sex. People like attractive people, yes. But that is both men and women. Attractive is personal, in the eye of the beholder. Women I find attractive, other men might not and the opposite is true. With that said, men aren't idiots, we've learned different things about women. Some guys just choose not to learn things about women and instead try and live life like a national lampoon's movie. Unfortunately I've never been in what I can consider a real relationship. So even though I tell people I've been single for more than five years, it's more like being single my entire life.