men, why do they do it?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by flayflow, Nov 9, 2008.

  1. flayflow

    flayflow Well-Known Member

    Why are guys such piss takes?
    i mean
    i was dating this guy
    then we split up due to loss of trust.
    last saturday i went round his to his to drop off his top i had and he told me he still loved me, i mean i nearly cried
    but i was at his the other night and he kissed me and i cried cuz i knew i couldn't do it knowing he had no chance of dating me again. he said it was his fault etc

    but the thing is...
    why kiss me in the first place when you know im going to beat myself up for giving in and hurting myself...

    it makes no sense

    can anyone shed sme light?
     
  2. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    In truth I can only speculate.

    1) He's confused
    2) He's regretting the split between you two
    3) He misses being in a relationship

    It sounds like your still very much attached to him, correct me if i'm wrong though.
     
  3. JohnADreams

    JohnADreams Well-Known Member

    Are you assuming that he knows you're going to beat yourself up about it or did you tell him that at the time?
    Either way clean splits are always best, more so if he still has lingering feelings for you.
     
  4. flayflow

    flayflow Well-Known Member

    nope you would be right
     
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  5. Izziebabystar

    Izziebabystar Well-Known Member

    i think move on to either dazza or someone else :p
     
  6. Iorek89

    Iorek89 Member

    maybe u done something he forgave you for?

    if u still care about him then whats the problem?