Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by lil-sis-one-of-two, Nov 6, 2007.

  1. lil-sis-one-of-two

    lil-sis-one-of-two Well-Known Member

    Are all men bastards or are they some nice ones out there, if yes where the hell are they!!!!!!!

    I don't know why but I always seem to attract the lying cheating verity.

    I hate my life and everything in it, I really dont think anyone would notice if I was gone.

    I need help I cant go on!!!!!!!
  2. Blackness

    Blackness Guest

    I know how you feel oh too well.

    I'd say 97% are "lying cheating verity" and lets not forget, sex obsessed and just use women!

    But yeh there are a few "decent" ones out there. But they are a dying species, hence hard to come across...
  3. lil-sis-one-of-two

    lil-sis-one-of-two Well-Known Member

    I just dont know what to do. Do I stick with the bastard I have got (It may kill me) or leave him (Also may kill me)?

    Its a no win situatuion.

    I just makes me want to scream Lol:mad:
  4. Unfortunately, there are also alot of deceiving, lying women in the world too. The problem is society. It's a competitive market where people are looked upon as products. Returnable, yet not refundable. What is left are a bunch of hurt feelings leading to a sense of desolation.
  5. Darken

    Darken Well-Known Member

    thats cause really women are attracted to those kinds of men. the sincere honorable nice guys arent getting 1/3 as much female attention. go for the nice guys not the "hot" or wild ones.
  6. lil-sis-one-of-two

    lil-sis-one-of-two Well-Known Member

    Where are they?


  7. Blackness

    Blackness Guest

    Why the hell would you want to stay with one of these morons?

    You shoudnt stay with someone who hurts you or just because you have "someone" there.
    In the long run it'll hurt less if you get over him now.
    I duno, it's up to you.
  8. lil-sis-one-of-two

    lil-sis-one-of-two Well-Known Member

    I just wish there was someone out there that could tell me what I should do for the best.
    Wouldnt that be good!!
  9. JohnADreams

    JohnADreams Well-Known Member They're all posting in there wondering why they've been passed over for the type of men you describe. Well, that's not all of them but you get the idea.

    I agree with Darken on this. The nice guys who have or had a lot of female attention are likely already married, if their partners have any sense that is. Look for anyone who hasnt been given the impression that it's ok to be an asshole to every girlfriend they've ever had because there's always another woman around the corner willing to put up with their behaviour for a few months. They really should invent a radar for it.:mellow:
  10. lil-sis-one-of-two

    lil-sis-one-of-two Well-Known Member

    Very wise words.

    Thank you.
  11. Nessarose

    Nessarose Well-Known Member

    It seems all the nice guys are taken, or else have no interest in someone like me. I can't blame them. One guy did come up to me once, said I had pretty hair and eyes, he'd seen me around, asked for my phone number. He seemed sweet, a little shy. It was cute. I gave him the number but he never called. Meh. It was probably a dare.

    I would die for a sweet guy. Many of them seem to like the...not-so-sweet women.
  12. sadsoul

    sadsoul Member

    Don't give up hope. There are plenty of good guys out there. Although they might be hard to find I know they are out there. I have the same problem with girls... I get taken advantage of often. So I kinda understand how you feel but maybe a little differently than what your going through at the moment. I recently met a very kind and understanding girl online; we chatted with instant messenger. Our conversation lasted until early morning when I had to school. Talking to her made me feel better knowing that there was someone out there who understood where I was coming from. It made the next few days easier for me. I am in her debt. Its helpful to have someone to talk to and listen to how you feel. Thats the whole point of these forums after all. I'm sure theres always someone there thats willing to listen. Just remember, you deserve to be happy.
  13. lil-sis-one-of-two

    lil-sis-one-of-two Well-Known Member

    Why do you live so bloody far away Lol.


  14. LetItGo

    LetItGo Staff Alumni

    hmmm. I dunno, sweet girls are nice, especially if your thinking longer term...but hey maybe thats just me.
  15. smackh2o

    smackh2o SF Supporter


    I'm a pig :laugh:
  16. lil-sis-one-of-two

    lil-sis-one-of-two Well-Known Member

    Should I take it you are male?
  17. smackh2o

    smackh2o SF Supporter

    Who me? Yah. I'm just different. I think women women are superior. Probably the only guy who does lol. There is one girl I absolutly adore. She's the beez knees
  18. lil-sis-one-of-two

    lil-sis-one-of-two Well-Known Member

    Is she your girlfriend?

    Why cant more men think women are as good as men at least I am not asking for someone to adore me just to respact me.

    Maybe someone should start giving talks to the bastards of the world about respecting women. Lol
  19. LetItGo

    LetItGo Staff Alumni

    Women are as good as Men...accept for reading maps, women suck at that :hiding: :tongue: I think we all bring something different to friendships and relationships. I agree though on respect, i see a lot of guys, younger guys in particular that just take there girlfriends for advantage, treat them like crap, don't take them anywhere, don't show them they care, or spend real time with them. When they wake up...its often too late.
  20. smackh2o

    smackh2o SF Supporter

    I look at them idiots and learn from their mistakes hehe. Kind of thanking them but their poor girlfriends. It's not hard to show a bit of affection. unless you really are only out for sex which in my eyes must be a bloody lonely kind of life.