Men

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

Your right I cant read a map, so i bought a Sat Nav so I am good as the rest ov you now Ha Ha
:smile:

 

[Puddytat]

hey, im a brilliant navigator!!! :biggrin: because most guys i know are too half-assed to even bother reading the damn map in the first place :laugh:

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

How can I leave him?

Sounds silly but although he is never there for me etc.. if I dont have him I have nothing.

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

hey, im a brilliant navigator!!! :biggrin: because most guys i know are too half-assed to even bother reading the damn map in the first place :laugh:

Sorry didn't mean to tar every female with my bad map reading skills

Lol
:smile:

 

[Puddytat]

you would be doing yourself a huge favour! you wont have nothing, youll have your self respect and you can start working on your self esteem and confidence which will open up a whole new wonderful life that you deserve!

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

I dont want my life I want to be dead.

I sound like a broken record!

Sorry

 

[Fishman]

Hey- I'm a nice guy we do exist, but you'd most likely pass us by....:rolleyes:

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

I dont know if I would, I hope I wouldn't.
:smile:

 

[JohnADreams]

Women dont need map reading skills because, unlike men, they can ask for directions.

Sounds silly but although he is never there for me etc.. if I dont have him I have nothing.

Do you feel like you always need to be in a realtionship?

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

I suppose not but it is nice.
Sometimes he is nice to me and we do have some happy days, I just starting to wonder if it is worth going through the bad days to get the few good ones.

 

[JohnADreams]

If he's a liar and a cheat, I'd say no. A few nice days wont make up for that in my mind.

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

I know your right.

I just want it to all go away!
I wish I had the energy to just end it all, him and my life.

I cant take anymore!!

:sad:

 

[JohnADreams]

:hug: Dont let it get ya down hun. The hurt always goes away in time, even if it doesnt feel like it will right now.

 

[Puddytat]

everyone has their breaking point. i was in a bad situation and it hurt so much to be w/ him i eventually had to let go because staying w/ him would have killed me more! i decided to just go through the worst pain i had ever experienced and then it was over instead of dragging it out. i dont know how i found the strength coz i didnt think i had it in me but apparently i did. be strong, the grass is definately greener on the other side of that situation but its a long painful journey.

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

I feel like there is only one way to get rid of the hurt but I cant seem to bring myself to do it.
I am so scared.

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

everyone has their breaking point. i was in a bad situation and it hurt so much to be w/ him i eventually had to let go because staying w/ him would have killed me more! i decided to just go through the worst pain i had ever experienced and then it was over instead of dragging it out. i dont know how i found the strength coz i didnt think i had it in me but apparently i did. be strong, the grass is definately greener on the other side of that situation but its a long painful journey.

You are so strong for doing that.

 

[Puddytat]

i know that now, but being in that place, you dont think it. and put in that place again i dont know if i would cope again but id like to believe i can! your heart is so much more resilient than you give it credit for. you are also more deserving of a better life than you want to believe.

 

[lil-sis-one-of-two]

Thanks for your kind words.

I deserve everyting i get, I am so fed up all I find myself doing is crying, I am so lost and lonely.

 

[Nessarose]

hmmm. I dunno, sweet girls are nice, especially if your thinking longer term...but hey maybe thats just me.

That's good to hear. I'm not about to whore myself out or anything, and a lot of times I hear guys lamenting how they like bitches. I mean, I can be a bitch--any girl/ woman can--but people generally think of me as sweet, maybe a friend, nothing else if they get to know me.