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Mess part 2

Discussion in 'Help Me! I Need to Talk to Someone.' started by Fairlady300zx, Jun 14, 2018.

  1. Fairlady300zx

    Fairlady300zx Well-Known Member

    Hi sorry I don't put enough to make you guys happy by posting small things, I'm new and terrible at this which I'm used to. But why do I have no one and anyone I get near to I drive away m I really that bad? I know the answer yes I am
     
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  2. gypsylee

    gypsylee SF Supporter

    Hey @Fairlady300zx you don’t have to put anything.. I was on a forum for people with anxiety before this and I lurked there for about a year before I posted. I used to just read posts and it helped knowing I wasn’t alone.

    Do you get tagged in the cafe posts here?
     
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  3. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Hi @Fairlady300zx it's fine not to post as @gypsylee pointed out its okay just to lurk and know you are not alone in your thoughts and in feeling the way you do.

    Do you think having a diary on here public or private would help in any way? Wish you the best and know we're here ready to listen when you are ready to open up.There is no pressure.
     
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  4. Fairlady300zx

    Fairlady300zx Well-Known Member

    I'm ready just not full of paragraphs sorry guys
     
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  5. Paisley

    Paisley * * * SF Supporter

    Just do what you're comfortable with. Don't worry about not writing paragraphs.
     
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  6. gypsylee

    gypsylee SF Supporter

    I sometimes come here and just write in my diary. Well I don’t even do that, I just post a song and some lyrics. The admin here are really good.. I’ve only gotten in trouble a few times haha.
     
  7. MarvelFan

    MarvelFan Well-Known Member

    I like small things we can break those things down comment after comment or thread after thread. Some people make spaghetti postings and it is like trying to look for a needle in a haystack, so no need to say sorry I actually thank you very much.

    Why do you have no one? Well first I don't know if your a man or woman but given by your username lets assume your a woman. For a woman you just have to put youself out there in the dating world either online like on pof.com, match or tagged.com(which is free). Of course you don't want the loser drunk with the wife beater on with mustard stains on it but don't set yourself for prince charming. I will be honest as a guy for most guys we will get with almost any girl we can find.

    If on the other hand you are a guy then things change slightly too you might have to lower your expectations on having an extremely beautiful girl (that in my opinion usually are shallow and less loving), to a girl that might have some baggage, might be not the most beautiful outside or a little chub chub but is extremely loving and beautiful inside.

    If you are driving them away what do you think that is that is driving them away?
     
  8. Fairlady300zx

    Fairlady300zx Well-Known Member

    Believe it or not I'm a male name is after a car, very fast and manic but prone to serious problems. I thought it made sense.
     
  9. MarvelFan

    MarvelFan Well-Known Member

    Ok then my last paragragh belongs to you. lol
     
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  10. Fairlady300zx

    Fairlady300zx Well-Known Member

    Lol way I fell nothing belongs to me fast cars or not lol
     
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