We've been going out a year, I think we've probli just about drained everything out of the relationship, I recently found out he'd been going on a swingers site, (fabswingers.com) Anyway I read through some messages and found out he'd been sucked off by a transexual. Now I am in no way shape or form a homosexual, I have a gay bestfriend and to me been gay isn't strange at all. But, when it's my boyfriend I was like wtfff as you can imagine. He's been talking to all these gay couples, and male and female couples. And he told me he didn't realise this 'woman' was in actual fact a former man. But it clearly said on 'her' profile that she was a tv/ts. this happened just before we started going out so he hasn't cheated on me, but he still talks to people on the site, like cybering with them. I've told him so many times he can tell me if he is gay or bisxeual. Also I've found loads of dating sites he's on and he claims he's bisexual on those. I don't know what to do! Why would he lie about been bisexual if the same sex doesn't attract him? Anyway I finished him and punched him and attacked him for a good half n hour. But I soon realised that no matter how messed up he was and how much he'd upset me he was in actual fact all I have. It's like I know I should finish him but I can't bring myself to be alone, I've got nobody left, and the one person I did have has completely screwed my mind up!! garrrrrrrrr I HATE MEN.