you cant always get what you want??
has anyone ever been told , you need to just grow up?
has anyone ever been told , you cant depend upon others to make you happy ?
has anyone been told , you just want attention?
how about being told ( after an attempt ) or you overhear someone say it is evil , pure evil?
i have been told all of the above and more and you want to talk about hurt, i was told i was loved many times , yet their actions showed otherwise..
take this for example..
you and your wife or husband show love toward someone , then something happenes , perhaps it is a thing that hurts you deeply , then you assume cause it was on that person computer that they had actually did it , so what do you do??
1 = you know this person thinks of you as their own mom and dad.
2 = you have several kids of your own , so you really cant think of them that way even though you know they love you..
now can you walk out of their life without calloing, sending a card just to say hi , without visiting, etc
NOTE = YOU KNOW THE PERSON LOVES YOU DEARLY , YOU KNOW THEY THINK OF YOU AS A MOM AND DAD .
Would you still just up and dissappear out of their lifes????
now suppose about 2 or 3 years later , you learn that the damage and hurt that was done , was done by a child of that person family who was under the age of 12 and had used the computer.. and suppose you learned that this person has very little time left..
Also you find out that this person is really considering upon taking their own life.. that they have tried to contact you several times and by several ways only to have it failed each time.. also that they had contacted even talk show hosts on TV because they were that desperate to make amends with you , yet if they can not do that then they will take their life eariler to get out of all the pain..
now suppose you are that couple that this happened to..
WHAT WOULD YOU DO???
1 = YOU GO TO THEM BY VISITING THEM BEFORE THEY PASS ON AND LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU REALLY DO LOVE THEM AND THAT YOU DO NOT WANT TO SEE THEM TAKE THEIR OWN LIFE EARLY?
2 = YOU DONT REALLY CARE AT ALL SO YOU JUST GO ON WITH YOUR OWN LIFE AND THEN WHEN YOU HEAR OF THEIR DEATH , SHOW UP AT THEIR FUNERAL ALL TEARRY EYED AND CRYING SAYING YOU LOVED THEM
3 = BREAK DOWN AND CRY BECAUSE YOU NEVER THOUGHT THEY WOULD ACTUALLY DO IT BUT WHEN YOU LEARNED THEY DID IT HURT DEEPLY BECAUSE YOU NOW WISHED THAT YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN TO SEE THEM
4 ???
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
all opinions will be accepted , both good and bad...
has anyone ever been told , you need to just grow up?
has anyone ever been told , you cant depend upon others to make you happy ?
has anyone been told , you just want attention?
how about being told ( after an attempt ) or you overhear someone say it is evil , pure evil?
i have been told all of the above and more and you want to talk about hurt, i was told i was loved many times , yet their actions showed otherwise..
take this for example..
you and your wife or husband show love toward someone , then something happenes , perhaps it is a thing that hurts you deeply , then you assume cause it was on that person computer that they had actually did it , so what do you do??
1 = you know this person thinks of you as their own mom and dad.
2 = you have several kids of your own , so you really cant think of them that way even though you know they love you..
now can you walk out of their life without calloing, sending a card just to say hi , without visiting, etc
NOTE = YOU KNOW THE PERSON LOVES YOU DEARLY , YOU KNOW THEY THINK OF YOU AS A MOM AND DAD .
Would you still just up and dissappear out of their lifes????
now suppose about 2 or 3 years later , you learn that the damage and hurt that was done , was done by a child of that person family who was under the age of 12 and had used the computer.. and suppose you learned that this person has very little time left..
Also you find out that this person is really considering upon taking their own life.. that they have tried to contact you several times and by several ways only to have it failed each time.. also that they had contacted even talk show hosts on TV because they were that desperate to make amends with you , yet if they can not do that then they will take their life eariler to get out of all the pain..
now suppose you are that couple that this happened to..
WHAT WOULD YOU DO???
1 = YOU GO TO THEM BY VISITING THEM BEFORE THEY PASS ON AND LET THEM KNOW THAT YOU REALLY DO LOVE THEM AND THAT YOU DO NOT WANT TO SEE THEM TAKE THEIR OWN LIFE EARLY?
2 = YOU DONT REALLY CARE AT ALL SO YOU JUST GO ON WITH YOUR OWN LIFE AND THEN WHEN YOU HEAR OF THEIR DEATH , SHOW UP AT THEIR FUNERAL ALL TEARRY EYED AND CRYING SAYING YOU LOVED THEM
3 = BREAK DOWN AND CRY BECAUSE YOU NEVER THOUGHT THEY WOULD ACTUALLY DO IT BUT WHEN YOU LEARNED THEY DID IT HURT DEEPLY BECAUSE YOU NOW WISHED THAT YOU WOULD HAVE BEEN TO SEE THEM
4 ???
WHAT WOULD YOU DO?
all opinions will be accepted , both good and bad...