I am so fucking SICK of the way certain people are going on at me. I mean, I know people who have never wanted a baby or suffered a miscarriage won't know what it's like for me, but there is no reason to be so fucking insensitive. I've lost a baby. I've lost my baby. I am fucking DEVASTATED. I'm sick of people either acting like it's nothing and telling me to get over it, or being patronizing, or just plain being ignorant fuckers. OR TRYING TO TELL ME IT'S A GOOD THING. I DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT THE SUPPOSED SO-CALLED 'BENEFITS' OF LOSING MY BABY. THERE ARE NO BENEFITS WHATSOEVER. The next person who patronises me, tells me it's nothing, or generally disrepects the memory of Jack in any way, will fucking know about it. And that's a promise.