missing dad

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by Mandy1, Jan 11, 2009.

  1. Mandy1

    Mandy1 Antiquities Friend & Senior Member

    He died 15 months ago and i miss him so much.He fought cancer for 6 years,so bravely. I feel guilty that i let him down at the end,and he ended his days in a nursing home.There was just the the two of us,but i let him down,i wish i could turn back the clock,but i cant.I miss him so much,it hurts so bad.
     
  2. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    I am sure he understood why he had to be in the nursing home. You did what you needed to do and you did not let him down because of it. I am sorry you are having these misconceptions. You will always miss him. He was your dad :hug:
     
  3. healing07

    healing07 Well-Known Member

    Amanda You do everything for your dad And I agreed with Gentlelady that he understood why he had to be in the nursing home. You are a very good daughter.
    God bless you.
     
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    :hug: :hug:
     
  5. Mandy1

    Mandy1 Antiquities Friend & Senior Member

    thankyou.

    Im hurting so much right now,i want my dad.
     
  6. sudut

    sudut Well-Known Member

    Hi Amanda,
    how are you doing today. How are you dealing with the loss of your father now that its been a while? Are you staying close with friends and family or support groups? You can pm me anytime.
     
  7. mulberrypie

    mulberrypie Well-Known Member

    :hug: :hug: :hug: im so sorry. please pm if you need someone...
     
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  8. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Hey i know its hard and its okay to grieve but know he understood that he needed special care and the nursing home gave him that. You gave him the best of you and thats all that matters He knew you loved him He would want only happiness for his daughter okay. Do something that keeps his memory like planting a special tree for him It is okay to be sad but know he would want you to move on and be happy okay take care