Right just to fill in the gaps, Mole (beloved son) has finally agreed to get some help for his social phobia. We duly went down the docs (lovely man) and doc is arranging a psychiatric evaluation. Now here's the problem, if anyone here has had dealings with psych units they will know how hellish long you wait for an appointment. So its been a week and an a half and already the Mole is showing signs of backing out SIGH! Anyone got any suggestions as to how I keep him wanting help till it arrives?