most definately loved and lost

Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by Bubble, Sep 6, 2008.

  1. Bubble

    Bubble Well-Known Member

    I lost my partner of 2 years to suicide 7 months ago, before I could tell him we were expecting twins.
    He had the belief that we would never start a family, even though we were both still young. When he passed he was at the end of his fight, gave up all hope that is when i found out i was pregnant with his children.

    Not only has my life been turned upside down, Ive been blessed with 2 expecting lives to cherish and remember him by.

    I will always love him but it was something I couldnt stop and for that I cannot blame him.:sad:
  2. Hazel

    Hazel SF & Antiquitie's Friend Staff Alumni

    Hello Bubble and please accept my deepest sympathy on the loss of your partner. It is so sad that you were unable to share the joyful news, that you were pregnant with him.

    Do you have family or friends nearby to support you? The blessing of twins is indeed wonderful but also hard work, when are they due?

    I'm glad you have found Sf & I know you will meet lovely friendly people here.

    Take care Hazel x
  3. ~PinkElephants~

    ~PinkElephants~ Senior member

    I am truly sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine whta you are going through, but offer you hope and support through this time. When your children grow up let them know how undeniable your love for their father was and make them understand his choice.

    :hug: my thoughts are with you hun. I wish your children and yourself the best health and happiness
  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

    I'm so sorry for your loss :hug:
  5. Pingu

    Pingu Well-Known Member

    I'm sorry for your loss :(
  6. levitated-one

    levitated-one Well-Known Member


    Take good care, congratulations on your lovely twin babies.. take good care of them, and much love. You stay strong.
  7. ToHelp

    ToHelp Well-Known Member

    Oh my God.

    Bubble I been here for a year now, heard many stories but MAN yours takes the cake and brought tears to my eyes. A pinnacle of tragic irony I'd say.

    Whew. Just effectual, your story. LORD I hope you get on, even seeking counseling if it seems it would help.

    I'm just you know. I'm floored. Don't take this wrong but that is movie material right there. Someone could use some license and make a very touching, powerful docudrama of it, for touching and powerful and SO sad, it is.

    :hug: ToHelp