is anybody else dreading mothers day??? i love my mum more than anything in the world. its the fact that my family is falling apart that im worried about. i dont think my mum can take much more. my brother is a drug dealer. we never see him anymore (even though he still lives at home). he has no future. he looks as though he is dying. and he wont let anybody help him. my sister has crabs. she is 13. im sure its very satisfying for my mother to know her daughter lost her virginity on a park bench to some wanker who gave her crabs at the age of 13. my dad is getting ill again with all the stress (he has a life-threatening stress realted disease). i dont know what to do. why did this happen to us? my mum doesnt deserve this. im worried shes might commit suicide. i dont know what i'd do without her. she thinks this is all her fault. but it isn't. its our fault we're so messed up. not hers. please somebody tell me its gonna be ok.