How does one move on from having their heart broken? I know it takes time, but how do you cope? After she tore me apart, I spent a week crying my eyeballs out, barely sleeping, listening to sad songs, feeling sorry for myself. Then I 'decided' I would not let a girl do this to me. I could not and would not allow myself to feel like crap over her any longer. It kinda helped that I started at uni and had a SHITLOAD of coursework and had to work and what not, but now I'm away for the weekend, and I actually have time to think, it just hits me all over again. Seeing or hearing her name, reading things about her or what she's done. Even just seeing friends communicate with her on Facebook hurts like hell. I can only remember feeling this screwed-over once before. June last year. I have been heartbroken before. About 4 or 5 times in my life I think. I honestly can't remember how I coped back then. It either must have hurt less, or I had a way to deal with it properly. What does one do to make the pain go away, or at least fade a bit, make it less present?