My sexual history is one of abuse, rape and abusive rape. But lately I find myself looking at men and wondering if they would be willing to have sex with me. And I picture it being very violent. Why? I hate what my ex did to me for 20 years and I shock myself with what I imagine. But now as I feel the need to be loved, I am looking for the very thing that hurt me so badly. I'm such a worthless whore!!