Mums hated me since the minute i was born, literally. She was forced to see a therapist by the courts when she pulled a really twisted stunt a while ago, i haven't heard from mum since, until tonight. This is the email, i edited out the names.
Firstly, my mum has never called me baby :huh: she's never been able to sort through something maturely and she would never come to any agreements with S and M. I don't know, is this a genuine email or is she trying to screw with me some more?
My parents have finally given me up for good. They've signed me over to S and M and i'll be living with them until i'm old enough to leave, that on its own says mums finally getting her head sorted but i still have something holding me back. I dont know, i'm so confused!
Hello baby,
Sorry for what I have put you through in the past. I was cruel and I have treated you despicably.
You will be better off with S & M, they can give you the love that I can’t. I cannot apologise enough for what I have done to you and nothing I do or say will make up for what has been done.
I will be talking to S & M about access, it will be a while before I am better so I won’t see you for a while. Your father is moving out, as you already know. S & M are happy for you to see him when you wish and are discussing the possibilities of you staying at his house for 1 or 2 weekends a month.
Your brother won’t be going into care. We are all aware of your concerns for him so I can assure you, he will be staying with your father with regular visits from a social worker.
Of course you can have your say in the matter when you are better, you can refuse to see me and your father, you can appeal to have more freedom concerning your father but, S & M make the final decisions. Your sister is still seeing D, if you find that hard to deal with you will just need to stick it out.
Treat S & M with respect, behave yourself and listen to their wise words. Your friends are right, I hold you back. Since you have been out of mine and your fathers care you’ve achieved so many things and you are an outstanding student. P is looking forward to your return to school, as are the rest of your peers. You know where you want to be in the next 10 years, make sure you get there, don’t let anyone hold you back.
I wish you all the best.
Mum
Sorry for what I have put you through in the past. I was cruel and I have treated you despicably.
You will be better off with S & M, they can give you the love that I can’t. I cannot apologise enough for what I have done to you and nothing I do or say will make up for what has been done.
I will be talking to S & M about access, it will be a while before I am better so I won’t see you for a while. Your father is moving out, as you already know. S & M are happy for you to see him when you wish and are discussing the possibilities of you staying at his house for 1 or 2 weekends a month.
Your brother won’t be going into care. We are all aware of your concerns for him so I can assure you, he will be staying with your father with regular visits from a social worker.
Of course you can have your say in the matter when you are better, you can refuse to see me and your father, you can appeal to have more freedom concerning your father but, S & M make the final decisions. Your sister is still seeing D, if you find that hard to deal with you will just need to stick it out.
Treat S & M with respect, behave yourself and listen to their wise words. Your friends are right, I hold you back. Since you have been out of mine and your fathers care you’ve achieved so many things and you are an outstanding student. P is looking forward to your return to school, as are the rest of your peers. You know where you want to be in the next 10 years, make sure you get there, don’t let anyone hold you back.
I wish you all the best.
Mum
My parents have finally given me up for good. They've signed me over to S and M and i'll be living with them until i'm old enough to leave, that on its own says mums finally getting her head sorted but i still have something holding me back. I dont know, i'm so confused!