This post could affect as it contain triggering issues. Please read and participate only if up to it. Mum is about to suicide. What to Say, Try or Do??? A mother of grown ups is about to suicide and I would like to know 1. How does or did affect you who lost a mother to suicide? 2. How does or did it affect the family; in which way? 3. Those who haven't lost a parent to suicide, how would it affect you? Maybe the most important qustion of all now. 4. IF you could help (or could have helped) prevent her suicide, what would you say, try or do? How would you go about it? I am out of ideas and do need answers to these questions. At this point your help it is crucial. Please try to help me. How would you go about it? What would be your arguments or else to make her change her mind? Mum is suffering mentally and physically and no longer want to fight for survival. This will be her third, but last attempt. Thank you all that will give me answers.